DARE TO STAND IT?

Hi and assalamualaikum kepada semua kawan-kawan I. I hope that you all still lagi sudi to read my blog. To all my blogger’s friend, I’m so sorry coz lately I’m so busy until I didn’t have enough time to visit back your blog and I know it is not a good excuses. So…. I’m promise that I’m gonna visit all my friend’s blog starting from this week. You can hold my word….

                           (cuba kita beranikan sikit diri kita kay)

For today, I nak tuliskan satu lagi entry terbaru dan kali nie I nak ‘bermain’ sikit dengan sifat yang ada pada kita. Yeah…. Title kali nie ialah ‘DARE TO STAND IT?’, so you all agak-agak I nak cerita pasal apa? Kali nie I nak cerita pasal ada sesetengah dari kita yang takut nak mempertahankan pendapat kita dalam sesuatu perkara. I rasa semua orang pun pernah mengalami situasi macam nie kan.

Kalau korang nak tahu, dulu I pun takut nak mempertahankan ‘pandangan’ I. Biasanya benda nie berlaku mengikut situasi. Macam I, biasanya I takut dan I akan mengalah bila I rasa ada orang ‘yang lebih pandai’ daripada I yang memberikan pandangannya. Pada I, maybe I’m not good enough for that and even I still didn’t agree with it, I’m gonna use a safe ‘word’…… ‘ada orang kata…..’.

Hemm…. Shame on me….. memang rasa bengang sangat bila kita terpaksa agree dengan sesuatu yang kita tak suka tanpa sempat untuk kita memberikan option yang lain. But it’s ok, I’m learn from it. For now, I’m totally change….. now I’m dare to stand it. Yeah….after I realize that it’s all about our self confidence. Yeah…. Kalau kita tak yakin dengan diri kita sendiri, walau sebagus mana pun idea kita, pendapat @ pandangan kita…. Ia tak akan berguna sebab kita tak akan dapat untuk influence/convince orang lain untuk setuju dengan kita.

Cuba kita fikir balik, apa guna kalau kita dapat pointer 4.00 (that’s mean kita nie pandai kan) tapi bila ada orang mintak pendapat dari kita, kita mula tergagap-gagap nak cakap. Bila kita berikan pendapat and ada orang lain yang membantah… kita mula panik dan terus rasa yang ‘ I’m not good enough’. The point is…. It is not about the idea but it is about a person who give the idea. Do you dare to stand it?

Macam sekarang nie, when I have a meeting with my boss and when my boss ask my opinion, then I will give my opinion…. If someone disagree with me, it’s ok but I will stand for it. Whether our opinion is good or not, we were determine it by a discussion. So… rather then you just give-in with the other, why not if you stand for something that you think it is a good thing. Betul tak?

So… kepada semua kawan I di luar sana yang masih tak berani nak mempertahankan pendapat you or you ada banyak idea but you just biarkan sahaja ia ‘beku’ dalam fikiran sebab takut kena reject, I harap sangat you all berani untuk mempertahankannya. You all boleh cuba teori nie :-

1.     Kalau kita ada idea dan kita rasa idea or pandangan kita sesuatu yang baik, kita mestilah yakin dengannya.

2.     Untuk make sure kita yakin dengan idea kita, we must to check our idea and think all the possibility, the strength and weaknesses it have to makes sure it is the best that we can give.

3.     And….to make it happened, we must have a knowledge about it. Don’t embarrassing yourself by talking something that you know nothing about it. Stand for the thing that you really know and you really sure. So….make a research, ok.

As a conclusion, it doesn’t matter whether you have a good idea or not. The importance is…. Do you dare to stand your opinion and if the rest disagree with you….it’s ok. At least you give something. Don’t be a narrow minded. Look for the bright side….stick on your mind “maybe my idea is not suitable for now but I’m proud with it. At least I’m giving something and yeah….now I learn something from the rest”